When my husband first left, I had three young toddlers, ages two and one (twins). I found a job as a clerk-typist making $12,000 a year. Each month I would turn in my tithing check for $100 and the bishop would give me two checks in return – one for the rent, the other for the more than $600 daycare bill for the boys. Everything else was my responsibility. I had only been a member of the church for 6 years, and this support has cinched my testimony of tithing ever since. Eventually I was able to work up to a position where I could meet all my family’s need myself, but it was never with much breathing room. Always living on the edge of financial disaster made me very uncertain of my real worth. The biggest challenge was that the twins were not able to take on full-time jobs when they graduated from school, and I never saw them as real resources in providing for the family, although as adults their financial needs had increased. For years I’ve watched my finances with the real fear that a single crisis would push us over the edge.
When we had the opportunity this year to take one of the self-reliance programs, I knew it was something that we should do, but I didn’t have any real faith that it could make a difference in our family’s circumstances. So my niece (who lives with us now) the younger of the twins, and I joined a self-reliance group for the 12-week program. It started out with information and counsel that I already felt familiar with, so I sat back expecting to easily cruise through.
And then we came to budgeting. Although the program stressed the necessity of budgeting to gain control of family expenses, I found I completely lacked any faith in my ability to create and manage a budget. There had been numerous attempts over the years but all had fizzled out. The self-reliance program provided the information, structure, and support I needed to commit to tackling a budget again. This time, with the support of a caring facilitator, genuinely concerned group members, and a commitment to seek the Lord as we proceeded, we, as a family, have come into a new place where the boys are genuinely interested in how the family’s finances are progressing, and have stepped up to the challenge of assisting financially in ways I had never thought possible. In the two or three months since participating in this program I have gained real confidence in the family’s ability to provide for itself – not just me carrying it. The budget gets maintained almost daily by one of the twins, and we’ve set goals and action plans in place to do things that have always felt out of reach.
As usual, the Lord’s challenge to “prove me now herewith” Malachi 3:10 has proven that he blesses each of us as we try His challenges. Each member of my family has gained personal blessings unique to their needs from taking advantage of this program. I encourage everyone to prayerfully consider if there may be areas in your life where the truly personal help of the Lord could bring blessings to you and your family.
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Lynn and Sherry Whyte have lived in the greater Richmond area for the past 25 years, but left their home and family in January 2017 for an 18 month mission. They moved to South Africa and, paying their own way, served The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They helped with various legal matters and mission applications during the week and got to know local members by attending local church services on Sundays. Lynn said of their missionary service “It was a great experience. I would highly, highly recommend any kind of a mission for anybody.”
The Whyte family has lived in many places over the years, most notably Ankara, Turkey while Lynn worked with the Air Force, although his work never took them to Africa. As a retired lawyer, he used his knowledge of law to help the Church with legal matters such as contracts associated with drilling wells and other humanitarian projects, papers required for the Church to operate in the countries, and leases for buildings and apartments. They both worked in the Africa Southeast Area office located in Johannesburg, South Africa. The Area covers 34 countries in Africa, and the Church has a presence in 26 of them. Sherry is a retired nurse and, while unable to directly use her nursing skills, found plenty of work do in the Area office. The Africa Southeast Area is the second fastest growing Area of the Church in the world. Sherry helped process 1,100 missionary applications submitted by African members throughout the Area.
The Area office was located near the Johannesburg Temple, and members came from many countries to be sealed together as families. Lynn and Sherry would sometimes help care for children of these families; they would play games with them, feed them snacks, and help prepare them for when it was time to join their parents in the temple. At times this was challenging, because the children rarely spoke English, but as Lynn put it “I don’t speak Zulu, but I do speak Lego”.
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On the evening of Sunday, December 2, 400 members and friends of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in the Richmond area donated 85 large trash bags of coats and other winter clothes to the International Rescue Committee (IRC) as part of the Church’s Light the World kickoff event. Light the World is a worldwide initiative of the Church to follow the example of Jesus Christ and to give as He gave. Those in attendance were encouraged to keep serving and also to encourage others to serve throughout the month of December.
The International Rescue Committee in Richmond helped relocate 150 people in 2017 into the Richmond area, and they are expecting to help around the same number this year. IRC in Richmond Site Manager Stephen Allen attended the event and said “this donation is going to have an amazing impact. It’s showing everyone who’s coming in that people in Richmond care about them. They want them to feel warm and secure in their new home.”
Kasey Tross, Director of Public Affairs for the Chesterfield Stake of the Church, helped organize the event and also spoke. She encouraged listeners to serve others and then leave with them a sign depicting a lighted candle with the words #LightTheWorldRVA and instructions to share the light with others through service and also through social media. Signs and suggestions for ways to serve were handed out and can also be found online at www.rvalatterdaysaints.com. Instructions with the sign state “It could be as simple as placing a kind note on your spouse’s steering wheel or as complex as a food drive...the options are limitless.”
One of the attendees was Sister Sanchez, a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. When asked about the Church’s Light the World initiative, she said, “What I truly like about it is that it doesn’t take a lot to serve others. It’s small acts that we can do that really bring a smile to someone’s face.”
Those interested in donating winter clothing to the International Rescue Committee can drop donations off at their offices located at 8100 Three Chopt Rd, Suite 128, in Richmond. More information about the restored Church of Jesus Christ and Light the World can be found at www.LightTheWorld.org.
Thank you to Brother Nance and President Mullins for putting this together! #giveasHegave
Service is a key principle of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We believe that “When ye are in the service of your fellow beings ye are only in the service of your God.” (Mosiah 2:17) Members of the Church in the Richmond area participated in Virginia’s Day to Serve this past September.
Shelece Nance and her son worked together to make superhero capes for CASA’s annual superhero run.
Cindy Fentriss, Lori Scott, Michael Scott, Mary Voiro, Jim Voiro with donations collected for New Life for Youth.
In addition to CASA and New Life for Youth, we provided service for:
Virginia Blood Services
The Children’s Museum of Virginia
Amy Fisher and Dan Devey helped with indexing names from historical records on Family Search. In total, over 10,000 records were indexed.
Some members also traveled south to help victims of Hurricane Florence. As reported in The Progress-Index, 375 members and friends camped in tents outside of church buildings and worked the weekend to complete work orders for nearly 200 homes. Their service included mucking out homes and clearing debris.
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In the Richmond area there are 29 congregations of Latter-day Saints. We strive to follow the teachings of Jesus Christ and spread His light in our community.
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